Thursday, October 23, 2014

Sink or Swim? Learning in the Age of Social Media

Original Post No. 4
Crystal Graham


Warning: This post contains graphic sentimentality and as such more paragraphs were used than is usual. If you are sensitive to text length or are not in the mood for a feel-good story, please exit this post immediately. Reader discretion is advised.

Something happened today.

It was shocking and perplexing and fundamentally changed the course of this post. The event was the kind of rare occurrence that makes you question everything you've come to understand and accept about the nature of what is.

Had I not witnessed it, had I not seen with my own eyes the majesty of it all, I wouldn't have believed it to be true.

Today, my 8th grade students were left unattended and acted responsibly.

To understand how monumental this is, I'll have to back track.

I'm my school's librarian, but I've also been made my school's testing coordinator. The long and the short of this meaning that I have to find creative ways to juggle my regularly scheduled classes and the management of our month-long testing. I've done this fairly successfully, no dramatic failures to speak of.

But today, I dropped the ball. Testing took longer than I expected and I forgot--actually forgot--that it was Thursday and I had a class. It took a while for it to sink in, the clues stacking up until understanding crashed down all at once. First, there was the unexplained scattering of jackets and book bags on the library floor. Then there was the confirmation from another teacher that there had, in fact, been some children in the library a while back. Then I looked at the clock. It was 12:15. Twelve fifteen.

Twelve fifteen--my 8th grade students! My 8th grade (and not particularly well-behaved) students had been left alone for THIRTY minutes. I frantically called the office, hanging up and redialing when I didn't get an answer, visions of missing limbs, and teenage pregnancies and my sorrowful face plastered over the evening news. I gave up and ran out of the library hoping that they might be in the computer lab--oh, God, WHAT would they be doing in the computer lab without supervision?

I flung open the door, terrified of what I might find, and wasn't instantly calmed by the backs of their heads. "Where," I demanded "have you been?"

"You weren't in the library," one of the more disruptive girls said evenly, "so we came in here to do work."

And that is exactly what they were doing. Quietly. Collaboratively. Intently. No one had gone looking for me in the office. No one had decided to play in the hallway. No one was off task, the two playing a computer game only doing so because they couldn't remember their password to our animation site. And even then, they were playing a work-related game.

Since the beginning of the year, our hour-long, once-a-week class has gone something like this:

1. Expectations are laid out and students are given the opportunity to work on our school TV program in the lab. They are off task, rambunctous and waste time.
2. The following week all computer privileges are taken away and they must sit quietly and do worksheets. They HATE this.
3. They promise to do better next time, beg for another chance, and they are reminded of what needs to be done.

Repeat steps 1-3.

That is, of course, until today.

But what does all of this have to do with social media?

Well, everything.

Social media is scary and the potential for harm is almost infinite. But it is also the sort of powerful, student centered technology that can change the way our children see themselves and their vital role within the world around them.

As explained in this article in The Digital Shift, students will fling themselves into the sea of social media, with or without our help.  We owe it to them to put down our fears long enough to teach them how to navigate these horrifying (satisfying) waters. Because when it's all said and done, the dangers are too great for them NOT to be exposed under a librarian's expert guidance.

But it will take trust. It will take trust that our students are more misguided than they are malevolent. It will take a trust in their innate desire for self expression and fairness. We will have to trust that our students can be trained to do the right thing when no one is looking.

But mostly, we will have to trust ourselves to be the sort of competent professionals that can teach our students to swim.

What do you think about the school librarian's role in the social media debate?

Have you ever been shocked by the ability of "trained" students to act responsibly?

Do you have an inspiring story about your students' use of social media?

I'd love to read your thoughts.

5 comments:

  1. Crystal,

    I love your post. Anytime I can relate to something or it is a real life experience/story, I take it to heart a little more. Which I believe our students do as well. I think that with the right groundwork, expectations, and consequences set in place, students will act responsibly. There will always be 1 or 2 that stray or get in trouble, but the rest should not have to suffer because of a few. We have to trust and believe in our students because if we don’t, they can sense this and their attitudes can reflect how we think.
    I agree that we should teach them to swim, not lock everything up and have them sneak around, because they will.
    I do think that social media can play a big P.R. role for the media center. Think of all that happens that we would like to share with the school community. The school librarian is seen as a leader of all technology and should be able to show with confidence and skill how to properly and effectively use all resources.
    Michelle

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  2. I've had those moments when I've looked up from a small group meeting in my class when I've been pleasantly surprised that students are all on task and working appropriately in their groups. It's a great feeling. Teaching routines and procedures and how to get along with each seem to be an on-going process all year. This is the same with social media. We have to set the boundaries through a well thought out AUP and consequences when those boundaries are crossed have to be implemented. Students are surrounded by technology day in and day out. It's better that we teach them to use it responsibly while we're around to guide them.
    Our students step up and surprise us all the time. They can do the same with social media. Of course, there will be a couple who stray but for the most part, they will follow the guidelines.

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  3. I cannot agree more, that we must teach students how to social network the right way, how to not be James Dean and steer away from the cliff of social evils before falling off the edge. Unfortunately, trust is difficult, and I am not sure if I trust any teenager even my own.

    I just read this really powerful article in the Atlantic Magazine (http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2014/11/why-kids-sext/380798/). Okay, so if you have read my other posts you know I am having one of those OCD obsessive moments. But, I cannot talk about Social Networking without looking the dangers.

    Anyway, back to trust. In the article a mother is shocked at what she finds on the wildly popular Social Networking site Instagram. The mother explains in horror that her daughter Jasmine fully naked was “just standing there, with her arms down by her sides. There were all these girls with their butts cocked, making pouty lips, pushing their boobs up, doing porny shots, and you’re thinking, Where did they pick this up? And then there was Jasmine in a fuzzy picture looking awkward” (p. 1). She goes on to explain how her daughter is a straight “A” student and considered a “goody-goody” by her peers. These are the ones we would never think would do such a thing.
    I hate to be the devil’s advocate here (well, actually not so much) but can we just hope and trust that our students will do the right thing when no one is looking? I am not sure how we can combat or even inform when the students understand and yet continue. Will there come a day when “selfie-nudes” become the norm just as offensive language has become part of this generation’s lexicon? Technology has surpassed us on this one. I fear we can’t catch up. As we fight one Social Network evil another pops up in its place. We bring down one site only to find another. Hopefully one day the dangers will sink in. Hopefully.

    References
    Rosin, H. (2014). Why kids sext. The Atlantic. Retrieved from: http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2014/11/why-kids-sext/380798/

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    1. Thanks for this link, Kirk. Hearing this kind of stuff breaks my heart because unlike the bad decisions of yesteryear, one wrong move today can leave permanent (digital) scars.
      None of this is new. I'm in my early 30s and remember as a teenager hearing about boys secretly recording girls in sex acts. The difference, of course, being that the viewing audience was limited to the boys' circle of friends who had access to the tape. So not the case today. But I feel the solution has not changed.
      It makes us extremely uncomfortable to confront all the possible harms that can befall children, so we tend to avoid the issues entirely or wait until it's WAY too late.
      A year or so ago NPR did a story about teenaged girls that faced cyber-bullying after knowingly (or unknowingly) being recorded in sexual acts. http://www.npr.org/2013/01/07/168812354/online-shaming-a-new-level-of-cyberbullying-for-girls My 10 year old was in the car with me at the time and we were able to have a really amazing conversation about the mixed messages girls receive about sexuality, the double standards for girls and boys who behave sexually, what the girls might have done differently, and what the cyber-bullying-bystanders could have done to protect the girls effected.
      I was able to have this conversation with my child because she's been taught what it means to be sexually violated. We could talk about sexual violation because she'd been taught about the circumstances where having sex is appropriate. We could talk about the appropriateness of sex because she'd been taught what sex is. We could talk about what sex is because she'd been taught the correct names and functions of body parts.
      The problem is that we wait until children are teens and want to teach them things that they can't understand because they don't have the appropriate background knowledge. What they know about sexual safety or online safety was learned from peers or figured out on their own.
      We can't wait until a child is facing a problem to educate them about the problem.
      We are in a powerful position as media specialists and we have to use every opportunity (formally and informally) to explain to students how to keep themselves safe online. If they are old enough to play on a tablet or smart phone or computer, they are old enough to understand some basic concepts of online safety.
      We have got to collectively "man up", push our discomforts aside and teach students in the relative safety of school walls how to act responsibly online.

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  4. This is awesome. I am so glad that your students were able to do the "grown-up" thing to do. Social networking can be a good thing as well a dangerous enemy. There are many child predators out there and we have to teach our children the safety of using social media sites as well as the internet. We must accept that this is the way life is now. Most children as young as eight years old have some sort of electrical device. We must protect their innocence and vulnerability to such horrible forces out in the cyber world.

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